Spot that Flag!
A Quiz Game of Red & Green Flags in Relationships
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HOW TO PLAY: 
For each scenario, decide if it’s a Green Flag (healthy/supportive behavior) or Red Flag (unhealthy/concerning behavior.) We'll keep the score for you and provide you with a reflect at the end! 
Description
1. "Go hang with your friends – Text me when you get home.”

Your partner encourages your independence and friendships.
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1 point
2. "Remember that thing you did 6 months ago? Yeah, still mad.”

They keep bringing up past mistakes during arguments.
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1 point
3. “I hear you. I’ll work on that.”

They take feedback seriously and try to grow.
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1 point
4. “If you loved me, you’d do this for me…”

Guilt-tripping is their go-to move.
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1 point
5. “You crushed it! I’m so proud of you!”

They celebrate your wins without jealousy.
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1 point
6. “Relax, I was just joking. Can’t you take a joke?”

They ignore your boundaries and brush off your discomfort.
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1 point
7. “How are you doing? What can I do to help?”

They check in emotionally and offer support.
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1 point
8. “If you don’t agree with me, I’m out.”

They threaten to leave or withhold affection during conflict.
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1 point
9. “Take your time—I know you need space sometimes.”

They respect your need for alone time.
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1 point
10. “My ex never did that. Why can’t you be more like them?” 

They compare you negatively to past partners.
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1 point
Bonus Question
(+1 Extra Point)
★: “I told my mom everything about our fight. She say’s you’re wrong.”

When your relationship becomes a group project.
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1 point
Reflection for Total Green Flags
After you submit, click "view score." 
You'll be brought back to the quiz, come here and see your reflection below!
  • 8-11: You’ve got a good eye for healthy relationships!
  • 5-7: You’re on the right track - keep your eyes open.
  • 0-4: Time to brush up on relationship red flags.
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