Chapter 1
Chapter 1
Success
Theory andPractice
Michael Edmondson
Dedication
To Scott Edmondson, Lisa Pfeiffer Jones and Kathy Kitchener
Advanced Quotes
for Success: Theory
andPractice
Michael Edmondson has written the handbook for those striving to succeed
in the new millennium. Instead of a run-of-the-mill self-help book, Success:
Theory and Practice connects the science, philosophy, and habits that drive
individuals to success in todays marketplace. Success isnt a secret, and this
book offers a roadmap for anyone willing to take on the challenge.
Adam Cirucci
Political Consultant and Journalist
Michael connects the dots in his book Success: Theory and Practice where
the rubber meets the road with his 7 Characteristics of Success. He
demonstrates the practical traits, backed up by fascinating research, to
help you unfold your own success story.
John P. Clark
CFPFinancial Advisor and Retirement Living Expert
Michael Edmonsons book is equal parts of research and vision. This is
how we do success in the 21st century: not only do we seek to improve
our lot, but also our relationships, our self-awareness, and our world.
Success is not either/or, but both/and.
Evan Harris
Co-owner of Tapas Yoga Shala
Michael Edmonsons newest book is an absolute must read for both
anyone entering the job market and those looking for growth in both their
professional and personal lives. This book is not your everyday book on
success, as it touches on the success of many, but lets you in on the mental
and emotional challenges each faced throughout the journey. As quoted
in the book from George Bernard Shaw People are always blaming their
circumstances for what they are. I do not believe in circumstances. The
people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for
the circumstances that they want, and if they cant find them, make them.
This book makes you want to find the circumstances you want in life.
Rocco Marrari
National Accounts Manager for EBE Technologies
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Success: Theory and Practice is a must read for anyone who is interested
in achieving personal and professional success. Personal and professional
growth is a key to success in our careers in this ever changing environment.
Dr. Edmondson provides questions to ask ourselves periodically as a
performance temperature check along with some quizzes. He also provides
real life examples of successful individuals and traits they implemented to
achieve their success.
Robert Sauselein, CHST
Northeast Operations Manager,
HazTek, Inc.
Dr. Edmondsons writing style is clear and concise while including
research relevant to theory and the practice of success. Choosing to read
this book will challenge yourself to examine your own personal traits while
receiving applicable advice on how to engage in successful behaviors, thus
leading to personal and professional growth.
Shelly Thomas Vroman
ICU Nurse
Abstract
The genre of self-help literature, often packaged as modern philosophy,
sociology, and psychology, is a vibrant and growing $10-billion industry
in the United States alone. For hundreds of years, authors have been helping people understand how to succeed in various aspects of life, including
academics, health, finance, and love. Analogies, scientific research, autobiographies, psychological studies, and religious parables are just a few of
the common forms of literature found along the spectrum of the self-help
genre. During the last 20 years, however, the technological, digital, and information revolutions have connected billions of people around the globe
and disrupted almost every aspect of how people communicate, live, and
work. To help individuals learn how to succeed in the volatile, uncertain,
complex, and ambiguous environment, todays technological revolution
has helped individuals produce, access, and share thousands of research
findings, publications, blogs, videos, online classes, e-books, websites,
books, and other resources focused on some aspect of achieving success.
When the three billion connected people around the globe are coupled
with this hyper-production of information, an individuals cognitive capacity to process ideas is stressed and reduces the quality of decision-making.
To improve an individuals capacity to process information, the self-help
genre has a tremendous need for a publication that both summarizes the
latest research and provides case studies. Success: Theory and Practice meets
both needs and is valuable for any person interested in achieving personal
or professional success. Divided into seven chapters, this publication provides a clear, concise, and compelling account on the theory and practice of
success and includes research from history, psychology, sociology, cognitive
neuroscience, animal behavior, and other areas. A list of readings, questions, and other resources are located at the end of each chapter.
Keywords
Success, theories of success, successful people, personal development, professional development
We are not provided with wisdom, we must discover it for ourselves, after
a journey through the wilderness which no one else can take for us, an effort
which no one can spare us.
Marcel Proust
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During the 10 years from 2000 to 2010, world Internet usage increased over 444 percent.7 The UNs International Telecommunication
Union observed that one-third of the worlds population, approximately
two billion people, have Internet access. Just a short 10 years ago, only
300 million people had Internet access. Of the current two billion people
with Internet access, 555 million have a fixed broadband subscription
and 950 million have mobile broadband.8 World population is expected
to grow by over a third or 2.3 billion people between 2009 and 2050. If
that occurs, by 2050 there will be a global population of approximately
9billion people.9 With more people alive, it is safe to assume the number of Internet users will continue to grow. For example, one estimate
from the National Science Foundation predicts that the Internet will
have nearly 5 billion users by 2020.10
The information technology revolution and the global transition
from connected to hyper-connected has resulted in the creation of a volatile, uncertain, complex, and ambiguous (VUCA) global environment,
creating an entirely new set of issues demanding that individuals develop
their skills, commit to life-long learning, and improve their level of self-
awareness. Eight in ten CEOs expect their environment to grow significantly more complex and fewer than half believe they know how to deal
with it s uccessfully.11 Leaders from organizations large and small are more
concerned than ever about the future because of the new requirements to
lead in the uncertain and ambiguous 21st-century marketplace. Academic
researchers have completed extensive research on how to help individuals
and organizations achieve and sustain success in todays hypercompetitive,
dynamic, and ever-changing global marketplace. Due to the vast amount
of studies conducted, however, it is virtually impossible for anyone to
become familiar with all of the publications related to success. Determining the exact number of success-related theories that academic researchers
published during the last decade or two remains difficult to ascertain. One
estimate suggests that there are approximately 28,000 journals across all
academic disciplines publishing over 1.8 million articles each year; 90 percent of which are never cited by another author.12 A small subset of those
1.8 million articles involves research on some aspect of success. Due to
their technical design, limited circulation, and hyper-specific nature, half
of the academic papers are read only by their authors and journal editors.
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Contents
How to Read This Book......................................................................... xxi
Forward............................................................................................ xxvii
Preface xxxi
Acknowledgmentsxxxix
Introductionxliii
Chapter 1 Have a Bias Toward Action1
Engage in deliberate practice3
Demonstrate the characteristics of a maverick5
Exhibit courage8
Chapter 2 Engage with Others 19
Collaborate21
The power of crowds26
Open networks30
Chapter 3 Commit to Lifelong Learning39
Practice the growth mindset40
Understand the focusing illusion 42
Develop emotional intelligence46
Chapter 4 Increase Your Self-Awareness57
Determine your self59
Market your value63
Meditate66
Chapter 5 Remain Open to the Possibilities77
Think differently78
Experience disequilibrium81
Remain open to serendipity84
Chapter 6 Create Options93
Decide between best versus right95
Turn your disadvantage into an advantage98
Engage in subtle maneuvers101
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end of each chapter. If you are unable to answer all of the questions at the
end of each chapter, I recommend that you at least examine your answers
to the following seven questions, since they each relate to one of the key
characteristics found in successful people. Select a time period (Ex: the last
month) and challenge yourself to answer each question. Write down your
answers and then revisit these questions and your previous answers each
month.
1. Do you have a bias toward action?
2. How often do you expand your ability to collaborate with others?
3. What have you done to demonstrate a commitment to life-long
learning?
4. How have you increased your level of self-awareness?
5. When were you open to new possibilities?
6. What have you done to create options?
7. What do you do to maintain a high level of energy?
Be honest with yourself when you answer these questions. Make a note to
ask yourself these questions on a regular basis. Achieving a higher level of
self-awareness is a critical first step to moving forward.
Forward
The Definition ofSuccess
Websters online dictionary offers four definitions of success. The definition that most resonates with me and captures the spirit of Success: Theory
and Practice reads as followsThat which comes after; hence, consequence, issue, or result, of an endeavor or undertaking, whether good or
bad; the outcome of effort. This definition of success is more than just
a focus on the ends, but rather the means and the ends; the process by
which an individual pursues a course of action that may or may not result
in the desired outcome. Success: Theory and Practice helps us, as readers,
realize the importance of self-awareness when engaging in the process;
provides the tools and action steps to contribute thoughtfully and critically to that process; and offers insights into the role of our personal actions and engagement with others as key contributors to the outcome,
whether the preferred outcome has been achieved (or not).
As an academic, I firmly believe in and live to be a lifelong learner
though some days I am more successful than others. I subscribe to the
Dewey definition of learning which focuses on the struggle, and the
result of that struggle is where true learning, personal and professional
development, and growth intersect. But as I have evolved personally (now
a mother of two) and professionally (nearing towards full professorship),
my definition of success has also evolved. Context and time are great influencers of success and contribute to ones ability to be a life-long learner.
Some days, success is showering and dressing my two and a half year old
and one year old before noon (parents, I know you can relate). Other
days, success is seeing a labor of love published or watching my students
achieve their dreams and pursue their passions.
In a world in which work-life balance (an unrealistic expectation, in
my opinion) and disengagement are even more challenging because of
the ways in which technology makes us all too accessible, we need reminded of how to re-center ourselves by asking Why am I doing what I
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Preface
The Changing Definition
of Success
In an article discussing the training of new radiologists, Dr. Richard B.
Gunderman wrote that everyone wants to succeed, but few people take
the time to study success. Similarly, everyone dislikes failure, but few people invest the time and energy necessary to learn from their mistakes.16
Dr. Gundermans observation is an important one to highlight in the beginning of a book about success. The abundance of research on success
makes it a field that people can indeed study. The 2013 American Express
Life Twist Study is one such example. In its research American Express discovered that nearly six in ten Americans reported that they consider themselves to be a success; yet 83 percent also agreed with the statement Im a
work in progress. Most Americans today define their own success based on
being healthy (85 percent), having a job they love (75 percent), having time
to pursue passions (69 percent), continuing to learn and do new things
(65 percent), and being able to make a difference in peoples lives (62 percent).17
The study of success has a long history. The ancient form of Egyptian hieroglyphs, a formal writing system that combined logographic and
alphabetic elements, told stories of specific episodes of success, survival,
and other aspects of life. For thousands of years, as hieroglyphs evolved
into alphabets such as Phoenician, Greek, Roman, Old English, and
modern, people have been trying to define and explain success. What
is it? How does one achieve it? What are the threats to achieve success?
Does your definition of success change over time? How do different generations define success? These are just a few of the many questions on the
understanding of success. Common definitions of success often involve
the achievement of financial wealth, the accumulation of luxurious consumer goods, the acquisition of housing estates, and the collection of
high-performance automobiles. The latest research suggests otherwise.
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Reading List: The ABCs of Success Literature list below highlights just a
few of the many publications related to success.
Analogy: relies upon a story to convey lessons about success, self-awareness,
and personal growth
Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
Richard Bach, Jonathan Livingston Seagull
Spencer Johnson, Who Moved My Cheese? An Amazing Way to
Deal with Change in Your Work and in Your Life
Autobiographical: true stories of those who have overcome adversity to
achieve a high degree of success
Chris Gardner, Start Where You Are: Life Lessons in Getting
from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be
Farrah Gray, Reallionaire: Nine Steps to Becoming Rich from the
Inside Out
Blake Mycoskie, Start Something That Matters
Sonia Sotomayor, My Beloved World
Behavior: research-based publications that focus on identifying the necessary traits and habits for success
Charles Duhigg, The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do
in Life and Business
Daniel H. Pink, Drive: The Surprising Truth About What
Motivates Us
Susan Cain, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Cant
Stop Talking
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Acknowledgments
Scott Edmondson, Lisa Pfeiffer Jones and Kathy Kitchener embody the
traits of successful people. I dedicated this book to them because they
needed to discover a way forward following tragic events. In less than
two years Scott lost his father and two of his brothers and cared for his
mother who was diagnosed with cancer. Lisas husband died and she was
left to raise their only child. Kathy suffered a devastating loss when her
one year old daughter died of a rare illness. In a book about the theory
and practice of successful people, these three individuals demonstrate by
example how to succeed amidst the darkest of times. They succeeded because they choose to move forward. Their dedication to life, concern for
others, and bias towards action have allowed them to succeed. They were
each gracious enough to write a brief statement to be included here.
Kathys story: On the morning of 11 May I never thought I was saying
goodbye to my beautiful daughter Kathryn for the last time. Kate died
due to an undiagnosed tumor in her throat. It was a devastating loss. I
never would have gotten out of bed the days following without the love
and support of my husband. He made sure I was up, dressed, and ate.
We supported each other since that horrible day. When I fall he is there
to pick me up; and when he stumbles, I am there to support him. Many
marriages crumble after the loss of a child. We have managed to keep
moving, I always hated the phrase getting over a loss. We will never get
over the loss of Kate. As we hold the love for Kate in our hearts forever.
And because of our love for her and each other, we were blessed with our
rainbow baby, Olivia, and will share our love and stories of her big sister.
You never fully get over the loss or past the grief. I carry it each and every
day of my life. I have suffered bad days and worse days since Kates passing. Now I try to have as many good days for Olivia as possible.
Lisas story: As a West Point graduate, Keith embodied the ideology of
Duty, Honor, and Country. He also had a magical way of making people
feel comfortable and respected. Never one to brag, the fact that he was a
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former cadet, an attorney and sang opera for fun remained a mystery to
many. Our marriage was a true partnership. With his passing, I lost my
husband, confidant and best friend. My life lost its laughter and its song.
Moving forward, I prayed for patience, grace and strength. I knew I had
to raise our son and understood there were no second chances. Looking
in Andys eyes, I recognized that every hope I had for his future rested on
the decisions I made in the wake of losing Keith. In my heart and mind
I purposely walled off the grief and focused on the stability and faith for
the future that we both craved. I became a master at compartmentalizing
and putting up a brave front when necessary, then crumbling into a sobbing mess when I was alone. Thankfully, over time, the stability and hope
I worked so hard to create became my solace. In some ways, it was all an
elaborate fake it til you make it scheme. As a side note Both Andy and
I found that helping others soothed our weary souls. We have participated
in many volunteer projects, but feeding the hungry has become a passion.
As Andy once said (while serving at the Trenton Soup Kitchen), We were
just one life insurance policy away from being on the other side of the
table. His thoughts were a bit dramatic, but not completely unfounded.
Scotts story: John Lennon said it best, Life is what happens to you
while youre busy making other plans. In a brief period of time I suffered
a series of life altering events that made me into the person I am today.
Starting in the fall of 2009 into the spring of 2010, I experienced the death
of my father and two brothers, a diagnosis of endometrial cancer in my
mother, and a divorce. During this time period, I honestly did not know
what to think, other than I could not give up hope that things would get
better. They say you go through five stages of grief such as denial, anger,
bargaining, depression, and acceptance. However, my experience was that
these stages were fluid and did not go in order. Additionally, I experienced
embarrassment, doubt, anxiety, and confusion. However, this would not
deter me. The one thing my father told me growing up, was not to give
up. In my darkest days, I felt I owed it to him to bring his words to life. I
worked my ass off during this time to distract myself and take my mind off
things. I worked overtime, two jobs, and then life happened. When I least
expected it, I met my beautiful wife Michele. She restored my faith in love,
friendship, and family, and has blessed me with two beautiful children.
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
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Thank you all for allowing me to use your stories in this book. Your
commitment to moving forward serves as an example for others to follow. New Zealand explorer Edmund Hillary noted that People do not
decide to become extraordinary. They decide to accomplish extraordinary
things. Moving forward amidst tragic death requires extraordinary effort.
Kathy, Scott and Lisa are ordinary people who accomplished extraordinary things.
I would also like to thank Adam Cirucci, Evan Harris, John Clark,
Rocco Marrari, Robert Sauselin, Shelly Thomas Vroman, and Vicki Baker
Harris for their comments on a draft of this manuscript. To the entire
team at Business Experts Press including Stewart Mattson, Rob Zwettler,
Charlene Kronstedt, Lisa Blade, Sean Kaneski, Sheri Dean, and Karen
Amundson I owe my deepest appreciation and gratitude for their constant support. Success: Theory and Practice is the third book that Business
Experts Press for me as they previously published Marketing Your Value:
Nine Steps to Navigate Your Career and Major in Happiness: Debunking the
College Major Fallacies. I would also like to extend a special acknowledgement and thank you to my family and friends for their daily guidance and
support including my wife Lori Joyce who made sure that our children
Amanda Haley and Jonathan Victor continue to travel down the road to
success as they mature.
Introduction
Linking theTheory and
Practice ofSuccess
It is both useful and necessary to use a case study that illustrates how
success seldom comes from any one specific theory. The individuals
highlighted in each case study here rarely reviewed the research and then
directly applied the findings to their life in order to achieve immediate
success. Personal growth and professional development follow a far more
circuitous route. When you examine the backstory of many successful
people, organizations, and brands, multiple theories of success are often
involved. Examining the backstory of the small, yellow creatures known
as minions, who went from relative obscurity to a $1 billion brand during
the last five years, seems like a good starting point. While the minions
might have exploded in popularity and created one of the most recognizable and successful brands and images during the last few years, their path
to creation started over five decades ago. What follows is a summary of
how the minions came into existence with links to the various theories of
success involved along the way: serendipity, adapting, perseverance, collaboration, and creativity.
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Meledandri, the films that I was exposed to were the films my parents
were interested in seeing as opposed to anything remotely resembling a
film that was appropriate for children. Being raised by parents who incorporated this type of child-rearing strategy was completely serendipitous for Meledandri. Unfortunately, a month before graduating college,
serendipity would strike again, this time tragically, as his father died of
a heart attack. Meledandri had to attend to his fathers affairs and phase
out his business. The occurrence and development of events by chance,
without any control or influence from Meledandri, played a critical role
in his development.
Theory: Adapt
A second theory on success regarding the necessity of adaptation also
played a role in the development of the minions. One of his fathers
friends, Dan Melnick, was a producer who had made films such as All
That Jazz and Straw Dogs. He offered Mr. Meledandri a job as a gofer. Far
from glamorous, his responsibilities included taking the dog to the vet,
to go shopping for Christmas gifts, to being a courier for 35-mm film
canisters so that [Melnick] could screen movies at his house. Yet the experience he gained was invaluable. Meledandri learned to adapt and opened
himself up to learning as much as possible through the experience that so
many others might have turned down or rejected since it was too mundane. Meledandri gained access and exposure to virtually every aspect
of producing a film, from the earliest conversations about ideas, to script
development, to scheduling and budgeting, to marketing. Although he
had experience in New York City, working in Hollywood required him
to adapt. According to Meledandri, I was coming from New York City
so I thought I was pretty savvy but I found it quite intimidating, actually
as I went from having studied Billy Wilder films in school to seeing Billy
Wilder have lunch with my boss.
Theory: Perseverance
Meledandri also demonstrated another trait that researchers have identified
as critical to achieving personal or professional success: perseverance. As
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Theory: Collaboration
A fourth research theory highlighted in the success of the minions involves
collaboration. Without his ability to collaborate, Meledandri would have
never been able to bring the minions to life. The minions are products
of Illumination Entertainment cofounded by Meledandri and Universal
Pictures in 2007. A good deal of the minion animation was done in Paris,
following the 2011 purchase of Mac Guff Ligne, a French digital studio,
in a deal that was financed by Universal. Meledandri founded Illumination on the idea that his movies should be created by a group of people
that have an international complexion. Renaud, for example, is French.
According to Meledandri we are trying to move away from the idea that
these are American movies to be enjoyed by a global audience.
Theory: Creativity
A fifth trait that researchers have identified, creativity, is also prominent
in the backstory of the minions. No one person created the minions. In
fact, they were not event part of the first draft of the screenplay. According to co-screenwriter Cinco Paul In the script, we just said, Grus minions do this or do that in the initial draft. And then, the films directors,
Pierre Coffin and Chris Renaud came up with the characters design and
the philosophical concept of the minions with their unintelligible voice
and tic-tac shaped bodies. When creating the minions, Coffin and Renaud looked for inspiration from some of the silver screens most notable
xlvi INTRODUCTION
toadies, particularly the Oompa Loompas from Willy Wonka & the
Chocolate Factory (1971) and Jawas from Star Wars: Episode IV A
New Hope (1977). Creativity helped bring the minions to life.
Christopher Meledandris ability to respond to serendipity, adapt to
uncomfortable and new experiences, persevere difficult situations and
failures, collaborate with others, and encourage an environment of creativity all contributed to the success of the minions. There was no one
single situation that led to their creation. As with most successful ventures, it unfolded over time and involved a variety of steps along the way.
The lesson from this analysis of the minion backstory is that the man
who was never allowed to see childrens movies grew up to become a leading producer of them. The backstory of Christopher Meledandri and the
minions resembles that of many other successful people and ventures in
that success was the byproduct of both intention and circumstance and
there was no one specific path. Keep that in mind as you translate your
vision into reality.
Wilbur Wright
Endnotes
1. Viv Groskop, Shelf-help Books Set to Fill Publishers Coffers in
2014, The Guardian, December 28, 2013.
2. Ibid.
3. David Runciman, Politics or Technology-Which Will Save the
World? The Guardian, May 23, 2014.
4. Thomas L. Friedman, A Theory of Everything (Sort of ) The New
York Times, August 13, 2011.
5. Ibid.
6. Dan Schawbel, Geoff Colvin: Why Humans Will Triumph over
Machines, Forbes, August 4, 2015.
7. Internet World Stats website: [Link]/top20
.htm (accessed July 2, 2015).
8. Donald Melanson, UN: Worldwide Internet Users Hit Two Billion,
Cellphone Subscriptions Top Five Billion, Engadget, January 28,
2011.
9. Andrew C. Revkin, U.N.: Young and Old Boom on the Road to
9 Billion, The New York Times, March 11, 2009.
10. Carolynn Duffy Marsan, 10 Fool-proof Predictions for the Internet
in 2020, PC World, January 5, 2010.
11. IBM 2010 Global CEO Study, IBM Press release dated May 18,
2010.
12. Rose Eveleth, Academics Write Papers Arguing over How Many
People Read (and Cite) Their Papers, Smithsonian Magazine, March
25, 2014.
13. Daniel S. Hamermsesh, Beauty Pays: Why Attractive People Are More
Successful, Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press, 2011.
14. Henry William Chesbrough, New Frontiers in Open Innovation, New
York City, NY: Oxford University Press, 2014.
15. Sian Beilock, How Your Partners Personality Impacts Your Career
Success, Psychology Today, December 3, 2014.
16. Richard B. Gunderman, Why Do Some People Succeed Where
Others Fail? Implications for Education, Radiology, Vol. 226, 2002,
pp. 2931.
l ENDNOTES
17. American Express, The 2013 Life Twist Study: An independent report
commissioned by American Express.
18. Ibid.
19. Jacquelyn Smith, This Is How Americans Define Success, Business
Insider, October 3, 2014.
20. David Wallis, Increasingly, Retirees Dump Their Possessions and
Hit the Road, The New York Times, August 29, 2014; and Svati
Kirsten Narula, You Should Spend Money on Experiences, Not
Things, CityLab, August 28, 2014.
21. Art Carey, Taking the Measure of Happiness, Philadelphia Inquirer,
June 2, 2013.
22. Seth Godin, The Icarus Deception, New York City, NY: Penguin,
2012.
23. For more information visit Paulo Coelhos website: [Link]
.com/.
24. David Brooks, Respect the Future, The New York Times, April 2,
2012.
25. Leslie Becker-Phelps, Dont Just React: Choose Your Response,
Psychology Today, July 23, 2013.
26. Craig Lambert, The Psyche on Automatic, Harvard Magazine,
November-December 2010.
27. David Brooks, Matter Over Mind, The New York Times, April 20,
2011.
28. Craig Lambert, The Psyche on Automatic, Harvard Magazine,
November-December 2010.
29. TedTalks: Most Viewed TEDTalks. Retrieved 21 December 2015.
30. Amy Cuddy, Presence: Bringing Your Boldest Self to Your Biggest Challenges, New York: Little, Brown and Company, 2015.
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Grinding work out over an extended period of time with the intention of
making adjustments in order to keep moving forward requires a high level
of self-awareness coupled with what researchers have labeled grit.
MacArthur Fellow Angela Duckworth, a psychology professor at the
University of Pennsylvania, identified this grinding out as gritthe tendency to sustain interest in and effort toward very long-term goals and
equips individuals to pursue, especially challenging aims over years and
even decades.5 Duckworth noted that people who accomplished great
things often combined a passion for a single mission with an unswerving
dedication to achieve that mission, whatever the obstacles and however
long it might take.6 Duckworth recognizes that the essence of grit remains elusive as it has hundreds of correlates, with nuances and anomalies
that include, but are not limited to the following characteristics: courage, conscientiousness, follow-through, resilience, and the pursuit of excellence not perfection.7 The field of publishing is a good case study of
authors who have had to practice resilience in order to get their work
published.
Throughout history authors have had to demonstrate grit amidst
multiple rejections by publishers. The reach and frequency of rejections
is so common of a phenomenon that there is a website dedicated to
bestsellers that were initially rejected - [Link].8 The halls of
the literary establishment echo with tales of now-revered writers who
initially faced failure.9 Stephen King is just one example whose Carrie
was rejected 30 times before being published. In 1973, before Carrie was
published, King, his wife Tabby, and their toddler and newborn lived
in a doublewide trailer. King drove a rust-bucket Buick held together
with baling wire and duct tape. Kings wife, Tabby, worked second-shift
at Dunkin Donuts while he taught English at a private high school.10
King also worked summers at an industrial laundry and moonlighted
as a janitor and gas pump attendant. Dealing with constant rejection
and criticism from publishers and readers from the articles he did get
published in the nudie mag market, King grew frustrated at his writing.
He even through a draft of Carrie out in the trash but Tabby found it
and told him to continue writing. They both had a bias towards action.
With that King finished his first novel and after 30 rejections sold it to
Doubleday.11
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whereas others either failed or dare not go. The latest research on being a
maverick comes from Elliroma Gardner, an organizational psychologist at
the London School of Economics and Political Science. Gardner coined the
term maverickism as a continuum where people fall along a range. Some
people are likely to be high in maverickism, others moderate, and some low.
By constructing this scale, Gardner is able to better quantitatively measure
maverick tendencies.21 Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Steve Wozniak, Sergey Brin,
and Larry Page are often described as mavericks.22 With her maverickism
scale, however, Gardners research indicates that being creative, taking risks,
breaking rules, and being goal focused are traits many people actually have
but they dont always have the same scale of results as Jobs and the others,
which makes them less well-known.23 If one is open to new experiences,
relentlessly curious and maintains a fascination with the world and a compulsion to understand how it works, then it is possible to be a maverick on
a smaller scale. This is important to realize because an individual translating their thoughts into action might hold Steve Jobs up as the large-scale
maverick to emulate. In actuality, all one needs to do is to recognize that the
pursuit of ones dream, and its impact on making a difference in this world,
no matter how small, demonstrates maverick behavior. In some historical
examples, a few mavericks started out on a small scale and then evolved over
time. The Impressionists artists in 19th-century Paris are one such example.
The Impressionists were radicals for their sketchy, light-filled paintings and for the fact that they established their own exhibitionapart
from the annual salon. In 19th-century France, a jury chose the artists
who could exhibit their work in the salon. Claude Monet, August Renoir,
Edgar Degas, Berthe Morisot, Alfred Sisley, and several other artists,
chose to demonstrate maverick behavior and went against tradition. They
decided that they did not want to, nor could they afford to, wait for the
jury to approve of their art. They all had experienced rejection by the
salon jury and refused to wait a year in between exhibitions and wanted to
sell their art to earn some much needed income. So, in an attempt to get
recognized outside of the official channel of the salon, these artists banded
together and held their own exhibition.24
They pooled their money, rented a studio that belonged to the famous
photographer Nadar and set a date for their first exhibition together.
They called themselves the Anonymous Society of Painters, Sculptors,
8 SUCCESS
Exhibit Courage
Aristotle believed courage to be the most important quality in a man
when he declared courage is the first of human virtues because it makes
all others possible. Recent research into understanding what courage is
and how we might be able to cultivate the ability to exhibit it when necessary is providing new insight into having a bias toward action. Uri Nili
and Yadin Dudai from the Weizmann Institute of Science in Rehovot,
Israel recently determined just how courage works in the brain, finding
that a region called the subgenual anterior cingulate cortex (sgACC) is
the driving force behind courageous acts.31 Generally speaking, there are
many forms of courage but the four most common are physical, collective, moral, and intellectual. Physical courage is a willingness to push the
limits of ones body; collective courage refers to when one joins or leads
other like-minded individuals; moral courage is the courage to stand up
for ones beliefs in the face of overwhelming opposition and intellectual
courage is the willingness to come out in favor of an idea that others
find ridiculous. The etymology of courage comes from Latin cor meaning from the heart. Having heart is often the deciding factor between
those who translate their dreams into reality and other who just dream.
Valentino Achak Deng, Ben Hogan, and Roger Bannister each exemplify
different forms of courage.
Growing up in a remote Sudanese town, Deng was caught up in his
countrys civil war. Separated from his friends and family, Deng became
one of the 27,000 lost boys of Sudan who were displaced and/or orphaned during war where an unimaginable two million people died. His
family lost to the civil war, Deng had the courage to find a refugee camp
where he learned to read and write.32 After a while he was accepted as a
refugee into the United States, settled in Atlanta, GA, and met author
Dave Eggers who spent the next three years writing What Is The What: The
Autobiography of Valentino Achak Deng: A Novel. When the book was published in 2006, Deng established the Valentino Achak Deng Foundation.
All proceeds from the book support Valentinos Foundation. The Foundations first major project is the construction of an educational center in
Valentinos hometown of Marial Bai. The Marial Bai Secondary School is
the first high school in the entire region, where decades of war completely
devastated the educational system.33 While Deng used his courage to return home, Hogan used his courage to succeed despite three personal
tragedies.
American professional golfer Ben Hogan, one of the greatest players
in the history of the game, is notable for his profound influence on the
golf swing theory and his legendary ball-striking ability. He practiced and
achieved great success amidst many personal tragedies. First, his father
committed suicide when Hogan was nine years old, which left an impact
on him forever. His fathers suicide placed the Hogan family in financial difficulties, so his mother moved them from their rural Texas home
to Fort Worth. To make ends meet, Hogan took to caddying to make
money, and golf became his road out of poverty. Second, it took Hogan
10 years to win his first professional tournament during which time
he went broke more than once. Hogan practiced until his palms were
cracked and blistered, then soaked his hands in pickle brine to toughen
them up, and practiced some more.34 Finally, he needed 59 days in the
hospital to recover from a near death car accident that left Hogan with a
double fracture of the pelvis, a fractured collar bone, and near-fatal blood
clots.35 With courage and perseverance, Hogan demonstrated time and
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11
Conclusion
Jack Welch, former CEO of General Electric, wrote, In real life, strategy
is actually very straightforward. You pick a general direction and implement like crazy. Herb Kelleher of Southwest Airlines famously remarked,
We have a strategic plan. Its called doing things.38 Doing things and
having a bias toward action might mean you have to move forward without knowing all the answers. Taking action means you often find yourself
in unchartered territory. Successful people know that they do not have
to have all of the answers. Tim Brown, CEO of the Palo Alto design
firm IDEO, said, I know I dont have all the answers ... nobody does.
Im personally perfectly comfortable admitting that I dont know the answers and that I am more interested in the questions anyway.39 Successful
people have a bias toward action by engaging in deliberate practice, demonstrating the characteristics of a maverick, and exhibiting courageous
behavior. Their lives are built upon the foundation of action and that approach allows them to translate their dreams into reality. This bias toward
action characteristic was summed up nicely by Will Smith: You might
have more talent than me, you might be smarter than me, you might be
sexier than me, you might be all of those thingsyou got it on me in nine
categories. But if we get on the treadmill together youre getting off first,
or Im going to die. Its really that simple.40
12 SUCCESS
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14 SUCCESS
Exercises
True Grit Assessment: Psychologists at the University of Pennsylvania, University of Michigan, and West Point developed a Grit Scale, presented in
The Intelligent Optimist (November 2012) to test their hypothesis that persistence was as important to success as intelligence. To measure your own grit,
answer the following questions with A meaning very much like me, B mostly
like me, C somewhat like me, D not much like me, and E not like me at all:
1. I have overcome setbacks to conquer an important challenge.
2. New ideas and projects sometimes distract me from previous ones.
3. My interests change from year to year.
4. Setbacks dont discourage me.
5. I have been obsessed with a certain idea for a short time, but later
lost interest.
6. I am a hard worker.
7. I often set a goal, but later choose to pursue a different one.
8. I have difficulty maintaining focus on projects that take several
months to complete.
9. I finish whatever I began.
10. I have achieved a goal that took years of work.
11. I become interested in new pursuits every few months.
12. I am diligent.
Determine your grit score: For questions 1, 4, 6, 9, 10, and 12 assign the
following points: a = 5, b = 4, c = 3, d = 2, e = 1. For questions 2, 3, 5, 7, 8,
and 11 assign the following points: a = 1, b = 2, c = 3, d = 4, e = 5. Now, add
all your points and divide by 12. The maximum score is 5 (meaning you are
extremely gritty) and the lowest is 1 (you have no grit at all).
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Endnotes
1. Jason Fried and David Hansson, Rework, New York, Random House,
2010, p. 196.
2. Ibid.
3. George Bradt, Why Overnight Start-up Success Is A Myth, Forbes,
October 23, 2013.
4. Ibid.
5. Rieva Lesonsky, Is True Grit the Most Important Factor to Success? American Express Open Forum, April 21, 2014.
6. Paul Tough, What if the Secret to Success Is Failure? The New York
Times Magazine, September 14, 2011.
7. Margaret M. Perlis, 5 Characteristics of Grit-How Many Do You
Have? Forbes, October 29, 2013.
8. Kavita Das, Writers Shouldnt Romanticize Rejection, The Atlantic,
November 7, 2015.
9. Ibid.
10. Lucas Reilly, How Stephen Kings Wife Saved Carrie and Launched
His Career, Mental Floss, October 17, 2003.
11. Ibid.
12. Christopher K. Hsee, et al., Idleness Aversion and the Need for
Justifiable Busyness, Psychological Science, July 2010.
13. Tim Kreider, The Busy Trap, The New York Times, June 30, 2012.
14. Geoff Colvin, Talent is Overrated: What Really Separates World-Class
Performers from Everybody Else, New York: Portfolio, 2008.
15. Geoff Colvin, Talent is Overrated: What Really Separates World-Class
Performers from Everybody Else, New York: Portfolio, 2008.
16. Seth Davis, When March Went Mad: The Game That Transformed
Basketball, Times Books: New York City, NY 2009.
17. Wikipedia, Larry Bird, accessed November 10, 2015.
18. Ibid.
19. Larry Schwartz, Plain and simple, Bird one of the best, [Link],
no date.
20. Encyclopedia of World Biography, Larry Bird, accessed December 1,
2015.
21. Seems Awkward, Ignores the Rules, but Brilliant: Meet the Maverick Job Candidate, TIME Magazine, August 29, 2012.
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Index
Acceptance
of criticism, 48
of others, 48
Acrylate Copolymer Microspheres, 20
Acuff, Jon
Quitter: Closing the Gap Between
Your Day Job & Your Dream
Job, 101
Adams, Scott, 111112
How to Fail at Almost Everything
and Still Win Big: Kind of the
Story of My Life, 112
Adaptive stress. See Beneficial stress
Adapt: Why Success Always
Startswith Failure (Tim
Harford), 97
Adler, Alfred, 98
Agreeableness, 25
The Alchemist (Paulo Coelho), 83
Allais, mile, 80
as the father of modern skiing, 81
Allen, Rick, 112113
Alstin, Terese, 2324
American Mindfulness Research
Association (AMRA), 66
American Psychological Association
Stress in America, 120
Anheuser-Busch, 27
Anxiety, 118
Arden, Paul, 78
Its Not How Good You Are, Its How
Good You Want to Be, 41
Whatever You Think, Think The
Opposite, 78
Aristotle, 8
Arregun-Toft, Ivan, 9899
How the Weak Win Wars, 98
THe Art of Scientific Investigation
(W.I.B. Beveridge), 32
As I Lay Dying (William Faulkner),
102103
Associational thinking, 79
Authentic self, 57
Autonomy, 59, 60, 96
Awareness
self-awareness, 46, 47
social, 46
Babin, Leif
Extreme Ownership: How US Navy
SEALs Lead and Win, 58
Bannister, Roger, 9, 10
Bartkowski, Steve, 85
Baucus, Max, 94
Becker, Ernest
The Denial of Death, 68
Beilock, Sian, 118119
Choke: What the Secrets of the Brain
Reveal About Getting It Right
When You Have To, 118
Beneficial stress, 117
Best option to the right one,
comparing, 9598
The Best Place to Work: The Art
and Science of Creating an
Extraordinary Workplace
(RonFriedman), 121
Betsworth, Deborah G., 84
The Categorization of
Serendipitous Career
Development Events, 84
Beveridge, W.I.B.
The Art of Scientific Investigation, 32
Bezos, Jeff, 65
Bird, Larry, 45
Bohn, Paul, 62
Bolles, Richard
What Colour is Your Parachute?, 95
Bomis, 22
Boorman, Arthur, 112, 113
Bradt, George, 1
Branson, Richard, 101
136 INDEX
INDEX
137
Echegoyen, Luis, 86
Edelman, Marian Wright
The Measure of Our Success:
A Letter to My Children
andYours, 39
Edmondson, Michael
Marketing Your Value: 9 Steps to
Navigate Your Career, 44
Education, focusing illusion to, 43
Edwards, Christopher, 117
Eggers, Dave
What Is The What: The
Autobiography of Valentino
Achak Deng: A Novel, 9
Ego, 5, 7
Einstein, Albert, 102
El Guerrouj, Hicham, 10
Elliott, Joe, 112
Emotional balance, 47
Emotional empathy, 47
Emotional insight, 47
138 INDEX
Emotional intelligence
(EI), 40
defined, 46
development of, 4648
empathy and, 4748
relationship skills and, 48
self-awareness and, 47
self-management and, 47
Emotional Intelligence (Daniel
Goleman), 46
Empathy, 4748
Environmental law, 85
Extreme Ownership: How US
Navy SEALs Lead and Win
(Jocko Willink and Leif
Babin), 58
Extroversion, 25
Failure, 61, 80
Farina, Dennis, 7778
Faulkner, William
As I Lay Dying, 102103
Fear
definition of, 114
managing, 112115
primary and secondary domains
of, 114
FedEx Corporation, 100
Ferguson, David
The Onion, 101
Fixed mindset individual,
4042
Flight from Death, 68
Focusing effect. See Focusing
illusion
Focusing illusion, 4246
definition of, 42
to education, 43
Food for the Hungry, 104
Fosbury, Dick, 8081
Fosbury Flop, 80, 81
French Skiing Federation, 81
Fried, Jason
Rework, 1
Friedman, Ron
The Best Place to Work: The Art
and Science of Creating an
Extraordinary Workplace, 121
Frost, Robert
My Butterfly: An Elegy, 103
Fry, Art, 19, 20
Gardner, Chris
The Pursuit of Happyness, 5859
Gardner, Daniel, 114115
The Science of Fear: Why We Fear
theThings We Shouldntand
Put Ourselves in Greater
Danger, 114
Gardner, Elliroma, 6
Gardner, John W., 69, 128
Gates, Bill, 6
Gelatt, H.B., 105
General Mills, 28
General Mills Worldwide Innovation
Network (G-WIN), 28
Geography
impact on long-term income
potential and career
success, 44
Get Excited: Reappraising PrePerformance Anxiety as
Excitement (Alison Wood
Brooks), 117118
Gigerenzer, Gerd, 115
Gladwell, Malcolm
David and Goliath: Underdogs,
Misfits, and The Art of Battling
Giants, 96, 99
Outliers: The Story of Success, 3
Glass, Hugh, 9394
Glass, Philip, 103
Glazer, Brian
A Curious Mind: The Secrete to a
Bigger life, 2526
Imagine Entertainment, 26
Night Shift, 26
Splash, 26
Global economy, 45
Godin, Seth
The Icarus Deception: How High Will
You Fly?, 82
GoFundMe, 28
Goldsman, Akiva, 94
Goleman, Daniel
Emotional Intelligence, 46
INDEX
139
Gonzales, Laurence
Deep Survival: Who Lives, Who Dies
and Why, 115116
Surviving Survival: The Art and
Science of Resilience, 116
Good listening, 47
Green, Henry, 103
Gregersen, Hal, 80
Grit, 2, 3
Group Genius: The Creative Power
of Collaboration (Keith
Sawyer), 2122
Growth mindset, 4042, 4952
Gunter, Max
The Luck Factor: Why Some People
Are Luckier Than Others and
How You Can Become One of
Them, 2425
Halvorson, Heidi Grant
No One Understands You and What
to Do About It, 121
Hamermesh, Daniel, 43
Hamm, Jon, 41, 4142
The Hannah, 127
Hansen, Jo-Ida C., 84
The Categorization of
Serendipitous Career
Development Events, 84
Hansson, David Heinemeier
Rework, 1
Hardy, Tom, 93, 94
Harford, Tim
Adapt: Why Success Always Starts
with Failure, 97
Harmful stress, 117
Harmonium (Wallace Stevens), 102
Haupt, Anna, 2324
Hawking, Stephen W., 25
Hedren, Tippi, 103104
Helicopter parenting epidemic,
5960
Hell Archives (Paulo Coelho), 83
Heller, Joseph
Catch-22, 103
Herzberg, Frederick
The Motivation to Work,
4445, 96
High jump, 80
Hitchcock, Alfred, 104
Hoffman, Reid
The Start-up of You: Adapt to the
Future, Invest in Yourself,
andTransform Your Career,
45, 62
Hogan, Ben, 910
Hope for a Home, 29
Hvding, 2324
Howard, Ron
Imagine Entertainment, 26
Night Shift, 26
Splash, 26
How the Weak Win Wars (Ivan
Arregun-Toft), 98
How to Fail at Almost Everything
andStill Win Big: Kind of
the Story of My Life (Scott
Adams), 112
Humans Are Underrated: What High
Achievers Know That Brilliant
Machines Never Will (Geoff
Colvin), 48
Hygiene, and motivation to
work, 45, 96
The Icarus Deception: How High Will
You Fly? (Seth Godin), 82
Ideasproject, 28
Imagine Entertainment, 26
Impressionists, 67
Irritu, Alejandro G., 93, 94
Indiegogo, 28
InnoCentive, 27
Inspiration, 82
Intellectual courage, 8
Interpersonal competence, 46
Its Not How Good You Are, Its How
Good You Want to Be (Paul
Arden), 41
Ives, Charles, 103
Jaques, Elliott, 77
Jefferson, Thomas, 102
Jerry McGuire, 8485
Job changing, reality of, 4546
Job satisfaction, 96
140 INDEX
Jobs, Steve, 6, 69
Jordet, Geir, 119120
Josephson, Stephen, 87
Josipovic, Zoran, 67
Journal of Career Assessment, 84
Jungle gym metaphor, 9495
Kafka, Franz, 102
Kahneman, Daniel, 4243
Thinking Fast and Slow, 42
Kaplan, Robert S, 6263
Kelleher, Herb, 11
Keller, Helen, 102
Kickstarter, 28
Killy, Jean-Claude, 81
Kindlon, Dan, 60
King, Bob, 5
King, Stephen
Carrie, 2
Kovitz, Ben, 23
Kreider, Tim, 3
Landy, John, 10
Lean In: Women, Work and the Will to
Lead (Sheryl Sandberg), 94
LeDoux, Joseph, 113114
Lifelong learning, commitment to
emotional intelligence, developing,
4648
focusing illusion, 4246
growth mindset, 4042
The Luck Factor (Richard
Wiseman), 25
The Luck Factor: Why Some People Are
Luckier Than Others and How
You Can Become One of Them
(Max Gunter), 2425
Madame Walker, 41
Mann, Michael, 77
Man on Wire, 70
Marial Bai Secondary School, 9
Marketing Your Value: 9 Steps to
Navigate Your Career (Michael
Edmondson), 44
Markus, Hazel Rose
Possible Selves, 57
Marshall, William, 127
Massolution
2015 Crowdfunding Industry
Report, 28
Masterkova, Svetlana, 10
Mastery, 96
Masur, Kurt, 93
Mattessich, Paul W.
Collaboration: What Makes It
Work, 2nd Edition: A Review
of Research Literature on
Factors Influencing Successful
Collaboration, 21
Maverick, characteristics of, 58
Maverickism, 6
McGonigal, Kelly, 66
The Upside of Stress: Why Stress is
Good for You, and How to Get
Good at It, 117
McWilliams, Moses, 41
The Measure of Our Success: A Letter
to My Children and Yours
(Marian Wright Edelman), 39
Meditation-induced self-awareness,
6669
Mendes, Wendy, 117
Miami Vice, 78
Michaelangelo, 102
Midlife crisis, 77
Mind development, personal growth
and, 98
Mindfulness, 66
Mindset
fixed, 40
growth, 4042, 4952
Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
(Carol Dweck), 40
Monet, Claude, 6
Monsey, Barbara R.
Collaboration: What Makes It
Work, 2nd Edition: A Review
of Research Literature on
Factors Influencing Successful
Collaboration, 21
Moral courage, 8
Morisot, Berthe, 6
Mother Teresa, 102
The Motivation to Work (Frederick
Herzberg), 4445, 96
INDEX
141
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Pryor, Robert
The Chaos Theory of Careers: A
New Perspective on Working
in the Twenty-First Century,
104105
Psychological disequilibrium,
61, 62, 81
Psychological security, 68
Punke, Michael, 93
The Revenant, 93, 94
Punke, Tim, 94
The Pursuit of Happyness (Chris
Gardner), 5859
Quitter: Closing the Gap Between Your
Day Job & Your Dream Job
(Jon Acuff), 101
Real Cause, Real Cure (Jacob
Teitelbaum), 117
Relatedness, 59, 60
Relationship skills, 48
Renoir, August, 6
Resilience, 47
Resolving conflicts, 47
The Revenant (Michael Punke), 93, 94
Rework (Jason Fried and David
Heinemeier Hansson), 1
Right brain/left brain distinction, 79
Risk failure, 40
RMS Titanic, 127
Robinson, Sir Ken
Do Schools Kill Creativity?, 79
Rohn, Jim, 82
Roosevelt, Eleanor, 113
Rudd, Paul, 42
Ryan, Richard M., 59
Sandberg, Sheryl
Lean In: Women, Work and the
Willto Lead, 94
Sanford, Nevitt, 81
Sanger, Larry, 23
Save Fisher More, 29
Saving Eliza, 29
Sawyer, Keith
Group Genius: The Creative Power
of Collaboration, 2122
Schmidt, Eric, 64
Schmit, Mark J., 65
Schrage, Michael, 19
The Science of Fear: Why We Fear
the Things We Shouldnt
and Put Ourselves in
Greater Danger (Daniel
Gardner), 114
Scissoring of the legs technique, 80
Scissor kick technique, 80
Self-awareness, 46, 47, 5776,
81, 129
meditation-induced, 6669
self-determination, 5963
value, market, 6365
Self-concept, 57
Self-confidence, realistic, 47
Self-delusion, 5, 7
Self-determination, 5963
Self-determination theory
(SDT), 59
Self-discovery, 60
Self-improvement, 98
Self-management, 47
Self-motivation, 47
Self-reliance, 60
Self, selves
authentic, 57
possible, 57
single, 57
Self-talk, 118
Sellers, Pattie, 94
Serendipity, 8487
definition of, 84
Shaw, Curry, 127
Shaw, George Bernard, 40
Shoaff, Earl, 82
Shultz, Howard, 7, 8
Silver, Spencer, 19, 20
Sisley, Alfred, 6
Sloan, Bonnie, 100101
Smith, Will, 11, 128
Social awareness, 46
Society for Advancement of Chicanos
and Native Americans in
Science
Summer Leadership Institute, 86
Splash, 26
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Self-awareness is highlighted as a critical first step in achieving success. It involves regularly questioning one's actions, thoughts, and motivations, fostering growth and improvement . This process is integral to the journey of life-long learning, which is necessary for both personal and professional development . Moreover, self-awareness is intertwined with emotional intelligence, which involves the ability to understand and manage one's emotions and those of others, further contributing to success .
Deliberate practice is essential for achieving world-class mastery, often requiring a minimum of 10 years or 10,000 hours of focused effort, which involves confronting difficulties and making continuous improvements . Unlike natural talent, which is perceived as inherent, deliberate practice emphasizes the application of effort and discipline over time . Authors like Malcolm Gladwell and Geoff Colvin argue that great performance is not limited to the naturally gifted but is accessible through consistent, intentional effort .
The combination of lifelong learning and grit creates a powerful catalyst for success. Lifelong learning fosters adaptability and continuous skill development, essential for staying relevant in a changing environment . When complemented by grit, which involves sustained effort and resilience, individuals are more likely to overcome obstacles and persist in their endeavors. This synergy equips them with the tools to navigate challenges and seize opportunities, leading to long-term success .
Having a bias toward action is significant in overcoming challenges and achieving success as it involves moving forward despite uncertainties and often without all the answers . This approach is exemplified by individuals who engage in deliberate practice, demonstrate courage, and embody maverick characteristics . Successful individuals like Larry Bird have shown that persistence in action, even when faced with difficulties, is key to achieving their goals .
A changing definition of success impacts individual growth by encouraging adaptability and resilience. As personal and professional circumstances evolve, such as becoming a parent or achieving career milestones, individuals reassess what success means to them . This ongoing reevaluation fosters a life-long learning mindset, helping people align their efforts with their evolving goals and values, thus enhancing their growth and development .
Maverick traits, such as openness to new ideas, creativity, and a willingness to take risks, are crucial for both personal and professional growth. These characteristics enable individuals to challenge the status quo and engage in innovative practices, which can lead to significant achievements . Mavericks are often misunderstood due to their unconventional approaches, yet their audacity to defy norms can drive progress and offer unique solutions .
The 'busyness trap' involves engaging in activities for the sake of being busy without achieving meaningful outcomes, whereas goal-oriented productivity focuses on actions that directly contribute to specific objectives . Distinguishing between them is crucial because the former can lead to inefficiencies and burnout without progress. In contrast, the latter optimizes time and resources towards achieving success, ensuring that actions are aligned with personal and professional goals .
Emotional intelligence plays a vital role in building successful relationships by enhancing one's ability to manage emotions and understand others' feelings. The document emphasizes skills such as empathy, self-awareness, and self-regulation, which contribute to effective communication and conflict resolution . These capabilities foster trust and cooperation, which are essential for personal and professional relationship success .
Grit correlates with long-term success by embodying perseverance and resilience in the face of challenges. The document highlights grit as a key trait that allows individuals to continue pursuing goals despite setbacks and obstacles . Grit involves maintaining effort and interest over extended periods, which is crucial for achieving mastery and success, as seen in the careers of notable achievers like those discussed in Colvin's and Gladwell's works .
'Idleness aversion' leads some individuals to fill their time with activities that are not necessarily productive or goal-oriented. This behavior can result in a false sense of busyness without actual accomplishment, potentially hindering progress in both personal and professional realms . Idleness aversion stems from a need to justify one's time use, but it may detract from engaging in meaningful, deliberate actions that contribute to achieving significant goals .