Sullivan's Interpersonal Theory of Development
Sullivan's Interpersonal Theory of Development
The
of the Frcudian xslicn
junctures in devel mother also has needs, which in turn are met
tenetse the critical
t r a ltenets
mthognd
e n t - a n d which
is
position-is that of Sul. when the needs are metjTherethe immed-
no
the Freudian
om
Like Freud,
Sullivan developed his posi- longer any reason for continuing immediate-
his with psychi- iate interaction unless new bases
ivan.
ainly out of experience
arise. Situations disintegrate when they
tion m a i n l y are
his close association ly
atients. Through a r e resolved. Anxiety
and other social scientists, before terminated they
anthropologists role here: it arises, for e x -
emphasis on the social en may play a large
he placed more
than Freud had. He repudiated ample, when o n e makes friendly
o v e r t u r e s to
ment
ronment than
a desirable person and
is rebuffed.
and devel
mch of the Freudian vocabulary theory ot According to Sullivan. there
arethree
ned one of his
own. interpersonal
The parataxiu,
psychiatry he
he formulated has found e x types of experience: the prokotaxic,
chiatry Fhese terms refer to the
man-
and
display
the desine
ot
al aware
nu able or inellable (prnotaxn), the lon an
ICSs
O
D tally communcable (parataxic), ancd the opposite lolescence
sex.
whichtimate ol h
wholly ommunicable (syntaxic). This culture to culture, ençds when thevaries Irow
relationhiindiv a
scheme allows a considerable place for un- has developed some social relIndivi
onscous behavior without positing an "un-
conscious mind" or instinetual urges as the
pattern of activity which fulfille
lust, or desire for sexual
onship and
activity./aeror her
cence extends the
nmansprings of behavior.
Sullivan's treatment of needs is a luid
individúal's a do
form a socially acceptable patten AS to
adoles.
one. The infant
quickly develops new needs
in addition to the initial bodily ones, both
and sexual behavior. Atadulthood
enters intoa love ihe timacy
elationship
(which r person
through experience and maturation. Needs may not satisfy the person sexual ay or
appear chronologically. some not until sever- During this era the person establishesdesire
a
al
vears have passed. Thusthe sexualdrive uonship with anotherperson who is rela
oT as he terms it, the lust dynamism-does not
garded as a signiticant other. That pers
arise until puberty. (Here Sulivan
expliciuy becomes highly important to the individual
departs from Freud. who views the sexual and his concerns
drives as present from birth.) The various the
may take precedence over
individual's own view of her
needs are given
sophisticated treatment and situation. ife
are no
regarded as inner forces. Apart from Sullivan's account ot njancy and
elementary biological needs of the infant, covers much of the same chulthood
most of
the needs wiuh which Sullivan is been covered in
ground that has
cerned arise in con chapters of this text that deal
interpersonal interaction and with the development of
have nothing to do with
biology. Needs are and self. He language, thought,
sausfied in highly complex ways through in- emphasizes
the origin of the
the role of
anxiety in
terACtOn. Much satisfaction,
Sullivan holds, self-system. The Freudian
must take
place ihroughsublimation>thatis, concepts of the ego, id, and superego are not
by indirect means. This 1s becatuse the initial included, and there is no discussion of in-
stunctual drives or the
neans adopted are met with reactions
by sig- oedipus complex. In
childhood, along with the gradual
nificant others wlich arouse learning
person.
anxiety in the of the
syntaxic use of language, children
also use may
language as an anxiety-reducing
in-
Strumen. as when thev verbally disown cer-
Stages tain of their actions-"I didn't do that, it was
Sullivan's designation of my hand," or "I did it. I am
stages is a clue o demands for apologies and sorry." Parents
mportant diflerences between his position her this explanations fur
and thau of orthodox use.
During childhood the need for
Freudian psychoana-
ysts. Sullivan distinguishyed seven tenderness, which appeared
during
snality dervelopment Anfancy, stuges of per is manitested
and elaborated in theinfancy,
Juvemle era, desine
Véhildhood, Mhe for play and physical contact with others,
freadolescencefidolescencafate
olescence, andadulthood ad-
particulartythe mother. Ifthe mother is con
(1953, pp. 33-34). sistenly
nsunecy extends frym birth to the ap- children unablebe to respond with tenderness,
pearance of [Link] covers the may compelled to sublimate the
riol from the onset of
pe- need or
they may give it up. Like other ob
he articulate speech to servers, Sullivan remarks
appearance of need to have playmates.
a upon the fact that
Theljuvenile era govers the periocl of gram- children learn to deceive acdults and so es
nar
sclhoöi Tnough, as a resull of mauura- cape stanny
rebult and anxiety. Sullivan is con
concerned with
tion, the desire for an
with a
intimate relationship handling
issues that
inacdequate means of
conpanion the sanme
of
sex.{Pvadoles- [Link]«l notes
may be*uken by the
a numder of
appropriale ,
wlhich may lead to The
coealm«
urnlr eut
approxinn:itelr ili
Starts
des of One of then is the usc olvrr time the child school. sSchool plays a
uble later.
begins schel
e child begins
alisms, o rrational. alizations, io ward off punish- key rolc in various ways.
Many more "au
thority figures" appear on the child's hori-
ment.
of malevolent develotment may
Vicious cyclesnteraction of the sort that o zo-tcachers, playground bullies, traffic
hrough
police, and other parents-and she has to
start
w h e n the
moth continually disparages learn to live with all of them. By the end of
C u r s
and lains the child's behavior this era, authority figures-including the
he father is likehis father. Thi_ may cstab. parents-are being compared with one an-
he
saying hce sis de
by viction in the child that n de- other as persons. The parents are no longer
lish the
testable
and unworthy and must expect al- regarded as the most perfect people on
This unfort carth, nor are they any longer endowed with
to betreated badly.
rtunate
ways omniscience. At the beginning of the era.
urn o f events may "very easily prevent a
to desire contact and
typically begin
rCat deal of profit from subsequent devel. children
There is literally a play with other children; this sociability con-
Opmentalexperiences.. socialization" (1953,
. .
personality n e x t stage
in- people, cnildren s
Peopie, wider grasp o:
propriate
to
transition
the corrected, and they acquire a
(1953, p.
an idea of satisfy This
one
of these era"
developmental
ex- arousing too
ex-much anxiety (1953, p. 244). s r
thresholds of a
some
to most important
that
children,
heirs o f
Come
the
object of
example, usethetechniqueof disparaging oth- intimacy. 1f there has
been
CTS as a This is cquivalent
protective device: to ser o u s
uarp in
seek ncreasing inlimacy
velopmenl,
ith
the child
Saying "I am not as the onher swinc.
bad as
This does not give a secure base to a sensc ot sex,the pattern ot
inumacy
member of
a
the othe
begins t
personal worth. that of preadolescence. In
being: huch like
Preadolescence is ushered in by an interest fillment of this need faces serioushe America,
thee cle
fful
f
in a new type of personal relationship: since it runs into the sex
friendship with a person of the same sex. which revents access 'to
uaboos. The Dstack
This is quite different fronm previous rela- reverie and intimacy leade
fanlasy, and in "the gang
tionships, for it turns upon intimacy and col dren may engage in discussion chil
laboration in satisfying each other's ex- it. The discussion of ho's who pertaining
pressed needs (1953, p. 248): what" in the heterosexual world and wh
is of gTe
profit for those of the
gang who are alread
Because one draws so close to another, because in the adolescent stage.
one is
newly capable of seeing onself through the In adolescence, life becomes
other's eyes, the preadolescent
phase.. . is es tremen.
dously complicated by the elaboration of
pecially significantincorrecting autistic, fantastúc
ideas about oneself or others.
po
tentially conflicing needs. The appearance
of lusta powertul need-adds greatly to
Participation in preadolescent gangs has a the problems of the period. There
similar desirable effect. The need for chums collision between the
may be
arises both as a result of and the maintenance ofrequirements of lus
interpersonal devel self-esteem. Cenitl
opment and of maturation. Sullivan empha- urges may create acute self-doubt, puzzle
Sizes the ment, embarrassment, and other
great therapeutic effects of these unpleasant
preadolescent
from previous unfortunate
Teaclions.
intimacies in saving persons Western Because of the way sex is viewed i
courses. society, the desire for sexual actüivity
However, the preadolescent period is also often clashes with a sense of security in inter
an
era of danger because of personalrelations This is true in adoles
rates of differences in cence
development among friends. Chil- and în later life as well.
Inumacy and
dren reach puberty at different ages; varia- lustrequirements may also conflict with each
tion within the same sex other. A common
may be
three or four years. Hence, some much as
as manifestation of this con
flict is the separation of
cents lag behind the preadoles- persons into two mu-
chers. Some still re- tually exclusive classes/those who can only
quire intimate chumship when the others no satusfy one's lust, and hose who can only sat
longer do, or one child may not yet need isfy the need for intimacy and friendship
these inumate
or her
relationships when most of his he disunction between "good women an
peers do, and so later may have to "bad women,"
"sexy girls" and "good giris,
establish such relations conveys this idea
or much older person. much younger (1953, pp. 269-70).
The
early stage adolescence is defined
"as extending fromof
Thus
satislying one's lust must be at considera
the expense
ital interest, felt eruption of true
gen
toone's self-esteem, since the bad 8
lust, to the patterning
as
of are unworthy and not really people in the *
sexualbehavior which is the beginning of the that good girls are... .The trouble.. is that .
to the scantiness
interests and
fhis actual writings.
tal psychoanalyic
account-provide developmen-
overall an
accepts
partly
In this
thatsrch influences as the following are left chapter
research bearing on the
we have surveyed recent
out: oCcupational status and other adult sta-
tuses; the shifting of age memberships, in-
process of self-devel-
opment. The human infant enters the world
with no
cuding the effect of children on parents; ad-
aptations to the approach of death; the
self-conception.
Exposureexperiences
tion produces the socialization
to interac-
handling of slow or abrupt changes of sta- that progressively mold and build an
emerg-
tuses many kinds.
ofdevelopmental ing self-conception. The self is not a part of
he accountitself, insofar the physical body, but is rather a set of sym-
bolic indications that individuals make to
sit dealswith children, must be amplified
themselves on the basis of their interpersonal
s Sulivan himself recognized. It can be ex-
experiences with others. The formulations
tended,of course, by actual investigation of of Cooley and Mead were reviewed and con-
childrenCultural variation as well as varia- trasted with the developmental schemes of
ion by sex, and the general influence of so-
Freud, Lacan, Erikson, and Sullivan. Of
cial structures, must be more extensively the Freudian models, Sullivan's was found
taken into account. A wider range of psycho- to be the most satisfactory. Freud's original
logical processes also needs to be included. scheme: lacked any systematic view of the
One major reservation about the account
self, and Erikson's formulaions stressed in
itself is justified.úllivan makes anxiety vir- dividual crises that must be surmounted if a
tually central to-àctually, the basic motive healthy" personality is to form. Both Freud
of-human behavior, No one, of course, and Erikson heavily stressed sexual experi
shoulddeny its great importance. Despite his ences, ard Freud posited
that the sexual
The research on
and sociologists the author's well-known child developmental stage=
anthropologists children which led t
done by our and presens the research on
1950s considerably amplifies Freud.
since the variations in child- his theoretical noxdification of
of cultural
knowledge