Ministry of higher education
Takhar university
Language and literature faculty
English department
What is confidence?
Prepared by Ghulam shah “Faizi”
Teacher Abdul hay “Zafari”
What is confidence?...........................................................................................................1
Types of confidence ……………………………………………………………………………………………………….2
How to string then self confidence?.....................................................................................3
Seven secret to gaining self -confidence …………………………………………………………………………….4
The golden keys of success ……………………………………………………………………………………………….5
Guilt is your biggest obstacle ……………………………………………………………………………………………….6
Always have a smile on your face ………………………………………………………………………………………….7
Do not depend on others ……………………………………………………………………………………………………….8
Helping others …………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………9
What is confidence?
1. Confidence is your energy.
2. Confidence is your power.
3. Confidence is your driving force
4. Confidence is the source of your happiness.
5. Confidence is what you believe in yourself.
Another definition confidence of self -confidence is an
important key to success confidence is an important key
to success.
What is self-confidence?
Self –esteem is a source of energy.
It is a wide umbrella that a (self – confidence)
Is under its showdown. self –confidence is seeing
yourself as a capable with unique love abet sufficiency.
Sufficiency means the ability to be sufficient and
differences in to count.
In other words self –confidence means the feeling and
knowledge you have of your external and internal
abilities and limitation.
True self –confidence always comes from within not from
outside.
True self –confidence is born of your commitment to
yourself. This commitment that you will do whatever it
takes to achieve your deices and needs.
Self –confidence is your personal belief in yourself as a
human being.
True self –confidence is not being a fruit but knowing and
being sure that even though you are afraid will and
without doubt.
Types of self –confidence
1. Behavioral confidence.
2. Emotional confidence.
3. Spiritual confidence.
1- Behavioral self –confidence means the ability to
act and do things. from simple tasks to difficult
tasks such as making your dreams come true. This
is the self –confidence that most of have.
2- Emotional self-confidence means the ability to
master and control the word of your feeling and
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understand and their meaning and to be able to
make the right emotions choices and to protect
yourself from emotional pain and damage and to
know how to create intimate, healthy
relationships.
3- The third types of self-confidence which is the
most important .is spiritual self-confidence. This
types of self-confidence is your trust and faith in
the universe and the entire creation and
creatures.
The golden keys of success
1-love yourself: the basic condition of self-confidence is
self- infatuation and its most basic obstacle is self-
destruction in order to be confident you must be self –
absorbed.
You should love your body and soul and have a correct
knowledge.
2-encourage and praise yourself: praise and encourage
yourself for the smallest good thing you do.
your are used to blaming yourself thousands of time for
your wrong doings but have never considered yourself
worthy of praise and [Link] not take any of
your positive actions as small or unimportant.
3-guilt is your biggest obstacle: one of the biggest
obstacles to yourself confidence is guilt.
Guilt destroys yourself –confidence. the most common
guilt is that you do not act according to your value
system and conscience.
The best way to change yourself and master the situation
is to love yourself think positively.
Never say that I don’t have self-confidence, my
management is weak, and instead of talking about
yourself negatively, tell you self. Everything day and
every night my character is getting better and better in
every way. And my confidence is increasing day by day.
4-pursue success, however small
If you have big goals, but luck confidence these goals are
dangerous, small goals and quick. Short term success are
much better.
Turn even your big goals in to small goals and step by
step try to reach these small goals so that your final and
big goal is realized.
5-always have a smile on your face.
The first internal symbol of self –confidence is
contentment.
To cereals self –confidence, you must smile, don’t leave
home without smiling.
Smiling and laughing releases a hormone in the brain
that relives the pain.
6-take the mode of successful people.
Take on the mood of those are successful. Determined,
hardworking and self-confidence, in peace taker your
steps firmly, walk with a smiling face and an open mind.
take a state as if you are completely with your life and
have a purposeful purpose.
7-communication with god and the power of trust
Trust in god, the closer your relationship with god is. you
experience more self-confidence and at the more god is,
the more fear and anxiety over come you.
communication with god gives you strength.
Do not depend on others.
Self-confidence is incompatible with any kind of
dependence. you are not affected to your work .is your
job that depends on your energy and ability.
No one can prorate you with peace and satisfaction
except yourself. Do not depend an anything or anyone
under any circumstances.
8-helping others.
Helping others reinforces fact that I am capable of
helping others.
True self –confidence is formed when you give some of
your time to others.
